What Are Relationship Skills?

Skills Are Based Upon Creative Acceptance, Mutual Understanding And Compassion

Experiencing creative flow is one of the primary indicators that we are in alignment with our partners. We accomplish this when we honor our own Creative Nature and hold space for the Creative input of others. In this way, Relationship Skills affirm mutual understandings about creative opportunities and help guide us in Co-Creative projects. Instead of fixating on needs, Relationship Skills reinforce transpersonal opportunities that arise between self-affirmed creative individuals. Breaking out of personality Fears and Desires helps promote greater trust so we feel empowered to share our experiences and are shaped by the experiences of our partners. Through Mutual Growth, Autonomy, Intimacy, and Co-Creativity, partners facilitate our creative expression and we can experience greater compassion with them

Creative Context Expansion

Enriching Our Relationships

We use Relationship Skills to create a Common Neutral Ground where we can share ourselves and be seen by 
 our partners. Our capacity to connect and re-create our partner’s experiences depends on having space within to share them. Our goal is to be completely accessible without compromising any personal boundaries. When we can share the space of these 12 Skills with our partners, it allows us to know the solidity of our relationship and how we can support each other. The 12 Skills, or creative context, we want in the CNG are Aliveness, Wisdom, Growth, Playfulness, Personality Detachment, Autonomy, Paradox, Intuitive Discrimination, Intimacy, Mutual Learning, Physical Discernment and Co-Creativity. Having these qualities established within the relationship permits greater responsiveness and integration capabilities.

Skills Amplify Motive Access

Motives Are The Foundation Of Skills

Relationship consciousness is amplified when Skills provide context, Motives describe intent, and Attractions clarify content (or our lessons). We cannot work together as partners without the alignment of each element in our lives. While change or growth can be initiated on any level, we optimize our capacity to uplift consciousness with a partner when we work from the point of view of our relationship skills. Upper boundary limits sabotage the capacity to use skills to bring alignment, both personally and interpersonally. The more flexible we become in our personal skills, the more capacity we have to meet our partners where they are. Ultimately, it is about expanding to meet our partners while simultaneously being present with ourselves. Relationship skills are the vanguard of our development process. We follow where they lead.

Skills Amplify Attractions

Attractions Shift As Skills Take Charge

Skills help us develop the meaning of what we do and how we do it. When we understand what we want, we can align attractions so they get us there quickly. Unfortunately, when we let attractions define our course of action, we do not see the unanticipated consequences. Attractions are, in fact, a course of engagement without looking at what we actually desire. For example, co-dependent attractions, such as excitement, intensity and anxiety, keep us from being in creative relationships. When we add Skills to attractions, we can conquer co-dependent relationships through Enthusiastic Growth, Autonomous Aliveness, Intimate Vulnerability and Conscious Co-Creativity. These skill-based attractions transmute, transform and transfigure the quality of our relationships. Putting Skills first increases our creative power.

Class structure

    1. Advanced Skills Development 1 ~ Password: ACGRules!

    2. Advanced Skills Development 1 ~ Audio

    3. Advanced Skills Development 1 ~ PDF

    1. Advanced Skills Development 2 ~ Password: ACGRules!

    2. Advanced Skills Development 2 ~ Audio

    3. Advanced Skills Development 2 ~ Guided Imagery

    4. Advanced Skills Development 2 ~ PDF

    1. Unifying Feminine & Masculine ~ Password: ACGRules!

    2. Unifying Feminine & Masculine ~ Audio

    3. Unifying Feminine & Masculine ~ Guided Imagery

    4. Unifying Feminine & Masculine ~ PDF

    1. Personality Development 1 ~ Password: ACGRules!

    2. Personality Development 1 ~ Audio

    3. Personality Development 1 ~ PDF

    1. Personality Development 2 ~ Password: ACGRules!

    2. Personality Development 2 ~ Audio

    3. Personality Development 2 ~ PDF

    1. Personality Development 3 ~ Password: ACGRules!

    2. Personality Development 3 ~ Audio

    3. Personality Development 3 ~ PDF

About this course

  • $595.00
  • 25+ hours video lessons
  • Includes audio & PDFs

Instructor

Founder, Higher Alignment Larry Byram

My name is Larry Byram, the founder of Higher Alignment. Over the last 40 years we have worked with thousands of couples and singles to assist you in building conscious co-creative relationships. We invite you to explore and embody your unique creative design in your relationships and life contribution.

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