Support Factors In Choosing Partners

Energetic coherence is the result of bringing all of our Compatibility Factors so they optimally interact. The Consciousness Factors (Primary and Secondary Creative Expression, Defense style with WorldView) provide the spark of alignment regarding our Authentic Life expression and how our partner responds to it. The Support Factors (Communication Process, Pacing, and Decision Making approaches) are the way we interact on a daily basis. The flow of the relationship is guided by these factors and individuals that possess the same patterns are greatly facilitated by each other. This occurs because the way they operate and interact with the world is the same. They often come up with shorthand ways of being because they know each other and no longer need to interpret their Reponses. Communication is easy, decision-making evolves trust and our Pacing keeps us connected and seen. These support factors help us to distinguish what works for us so we can build upon it. We feel great gratitude that our partner knows how to meet us.
Higher Alignment advocates choosing partners with the same Support Factors but not at the cost of our Conscious Factors. The purpose is to be able to quickly identify our similarities and differences so in any situation we know how to address and connect to another. The value of being with those that meet us in our Support Factors is that we both love the way we are, which makes the natural connection much quicker and obvious. When we are not aware of these patterns, it becomes more difficult to know when others get our way of being and will operate in a way that honors us. Just awareness about possible differences provides clues about how to best interact with different individuals.

Why Support Factor Alignment Works

Our Primary Creative Expression defines who we are as a Creative Being. It is the most important factor overall, because once we understand and accept the beauty of it, we can integrate all the subsidiary Compatibility Factors and discover how they help us implement our life. The main factors that make it easy to be with a partner are the same Communication Process, Pacing speed and Decision Making Approach. Communication Process is the way we focus, interpret and prioritize our senses. Pacing speed is the frequency (how we parse and package) our interactions with others. Decision Making Approach is how we summarize and organize our response to others. What is critical is how we align support factors to reduce personality differences both by accepting differences and by utilizing similarities. This increases our confidence and capacity to act as a team.

Class structure

    1. Recognizing World View ~ Password: WhatsTheview?

    2. Recognizing World View ~ Audio

    3. Recognizing World View ~ PDF

    1. Recognizing Communication Process ~ Password: CommuneWme!

    2. Recognizing Communication Process ~ Audio

    3. Recognizing Communication Process ~ PDF

    1. Identifying Pacing ~ Password: MyPaceOrYours

    2. Identifying Pacing ~ Audio

    3. Identifying Pacing ~ PDF

    1. Identifying Decision Making ~ Password: 2DecideOrNot

    2. Identifying Decision Making ~ Audio

    3. Identifying Decision Making ~ PDF

About this course

  • $175.00
  • 12+ hours video lessons
  • Includes audio & PDFs

Instructor

Founder, Higher Alignment Larry Byram

My name is Larry Byram, the founder of Higher Alignment. Over the last 40 years we have worked with over 30,000 couples and a larger number of singles to assist you in building conscious co-creative relationships. We invite you to explore and embody your unique creative design in your relationships and life contribution.

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